If is only a quick glance, most folks don't worry about their spouse's wandering eyes. Comments like the following reflect that attitude.
- Just because you can't order, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.
- It's okay if you look but don't touch.
- If you don't look, you must already be dead.
- How can you appreciate caviar if you never look at hamburger.
- It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home.
- You are taken, but you sure aren't blind.
- I'm married, not dead.
Other people view wandering eyes as a sign of disrespect and a lack of caring for one's spouse and not being overly jealous.
What are your thoughts?
A wandering eye by my husband does not bother me.
But then, he needn’t be bothered by my own, either.
However, if and when he ever becomes an participant, i.e. displays an active enjoyment of the behavior, he is dead meat.
; )
wondering eyes cause thoughts, thoughts cause fantasies, that leads to trouble! that is nothing more then disrespect for the spouse…. and using a woman for a sexual kick…. why do you think they look. this can lead to lusting and sexual addiction