Six Examples from Dr. Boyes's List:
"2. You and your partner are playful with each other."
"5. Even when you disagree, you can acknowledge your partner makes sensible points."
"10. Your partner is enthusiastic when something "goes right" for you."
"21. You never or very rarely express contempt for your partner - roll your eyes, cuss at them, call them crazy etc."
"26. When you argue, you have a sense that your partner cares about your feelings and opinions."
"40. You're physically affectionate with each other."