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Why is marital rape a controversial issue?

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Question: Why is marital rape a controversial issue?
Answer: Marital rape is a controversial issue because people continue to believe in the following myths and misinformation about spousal rape.
  • There are those who believe that marital rape is contractually impossible because wives gave up their right to give consent when they became married.

  • Many believe in the concept of marital unity and that a husband and wife are one person under the law which means to them that the legal existence of a wife is suspended.

  • There is concern that possible marriage reconciliation would be prevented by marital rape laws.

  • Culture plays a role in this controversy because in many cuntries, a wife is still considered as property of the husband, so a husband can't be convicted of hurting his own property.

  • There is also the fear that out of revenge or for their own personal gain, women will destroy their husbands' lives by making false allegations of marital rape.

  • Some worry that the legal systems trying to deal with marital rape would be bogged down by cases that would be impossible to prove.
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