Reunion time with your military spouse can be both a great experience and also one that creates problems in your marriage. Here are some tips to make the homecoming easier and more enjoyable.
- Go slowly —- don't try to make up for lost time.
- Accept that things may be different.
- Talk with each other about your experiences.
- Take time to become reacquainted.
- Accept that your partner may be different.
- Remember that your intimate relationship may be awkward
at first.
- Tone down your fantasies —- reality may be quite different.
- Communicate openly with your partner and family.
- Reassure your children —- change often frightens them.
- Plan on family activities, but be flexible.
- Set aside quality time with each of your children.
- Plan for visits from your extended family.
- Curb your desire to take control.
Information provided by the Department of Defense Deployment Health Support Directorate in cooperation with the Defense Technical Information Center.
