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Divorce Rates Can Be Cut

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By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com

Researchers found the results did not change even when they controlled for such factors as the percentage of the population which is Catholic (who tend to have lower divorce rates), urban, poor or cohabiting. Nor could changes in marriage rates explain CMP results. "We've looked at this data 100 different ways and the bottom line for us is that a Community Marriage Policy signing and the related activities associated with it bring down the divorce rate and creates a stronger culture for marriage," as Institute President Stan Weed told the Salt Lake Tribune.

David Blankenhorn, President of the Institute for American Values and host of the press conference at the National Press Club, expressed skepticism about the significance of that decline before seeing the study. "I am now persuaded that Community Marriage Policies, do, in fact, push down the divorce rate. This is a very important, nationally significant finding. As Norval Glenn, a noted scholar at the University of Texas who has read the study, said, ‘The technical analysis is bulletproof.'"

The study's findings have strong implications for the debate over the Administration's Healthy Marriage Initiative, which would authorize up to $1 billion of federal funds to help couples who choose marriage, to be successful. Dr. Wade Horn, Assistant Secretary of Health and Human Services, who will speak at the press conference, says, "Some critics of the Healthy Marriage Initiative, have charged that we don't know how to help more couples to build lifelong marriages or to reduce the likelihood that half of new marriages will end in divorce. This pioneering research by Dr. Stan Weed and colleagues proves them wrong."

What is Marriage Savers? How has it helped cities reduce divorce rates?

First, it works with a local coalition of clergy over a period of months to create a Community Marriage Policy. The group includes Evangelicals, Mainline Protestants, Catholics and minority pastors. They develop a written pledge, which clergy sign in a public ceremony, typically in front of a courthouse. Mike and Harriet McManus often speak at the signing in which clergy pledge to take five steps to revitalize marriage:

  • Require rigorous marriage preparation of at least four months during which couples take a premarital inventory and talk through relational issues it surfaces with trained mentor couples, who also teach couple communication skills

  • Revive existing marriages with an annual enrichment retreat

  • Restore troubled marriages by training couples whose marriages once nearly failed to mentor couples currently in crisis, a step that can save four of five marriages

  • Reconcile the separated with a course conducted with a same gender support partner

  • Revive stepfamilies by creating Stepfamily Support Groups for parents in remarriages with children, who can save 80% of marriages that normally fail at a 65% rate

    Secondly, Marriage Savers trains couples in healthy marriages to be "mentor couples" to help others at these different stages of the marital life cycle. To date, Mike and Harriet McManus have personally trained about 3,000 mentor couples, who have, in turn, trained others.

    Mike & Harriet McManus were featured in a 10 page cover story in The Washington Post Magazine on Feb. 29, based on a reporter's covering six sessions of their mentoring a Nigerian couple preparing for marriage. Marriage Savers was featured on PBS twice in 2002, and have been the subject of stories on ABC's World News Tonight, NBC's Nightly News, CBS' 48 Hours, MSNBC, Oprah, Time, and Newsweek and hundreds of newspapers. (See its website, marriagesavers.org.)

    Michael J. McManus
    Ethics & Religion column
    Founder & President
    Marriage Savers
    9311 Harrington Dr.
    Potomac, MD 20854
    (301) 469-5873 or (301) 346-5013
    Website

    Mary Schwarz
    Director of Communications
    Institute for American Values
    (212) 246-3942
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