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Remarriage Tips

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com Guide

  • Take your time. Look before you leap the second time.

  • Make sure you two have private time alone together.

  • Learn how to compromise. You can't always have it your way.

  • Don't try to be a super-stepparent. You won't succeed.

  • Share your expectations with one another on a daily basis.

  • Fight fair.

  • Keep your sense of humor.

  • Be honest.

  • Set ground rules about dealing with the children.

  • Don't put down ex-spouses in front of the kids.

  • Discuss money matters up front before you marry. Make provisions for how your prior assets will be passed down to your children in the event of death.

  • Treat one another with kindness and respect.

  • Learn from your pasts. Resolve any unfinished business from your previous relationships.

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