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How to Propose

One of the biggest moments in a person's life is when they propose or are proposed to. Here's how to make it a memorable experience.

Difficulty Level: Easy      Time Required: 10 minutes


Here's How:
  1. Find the right person.
  2. Fall in love.
  3. Know enough about your future in-laws to know if you should ask permission from them first.
  4. Know enough about your beloved so you can create a meaningful experience.
  5. Decide if you are going to purchase the ring before or after you propose.
  6. Stay within your budget or financial capability.
  7. Pay attention to timing. Don't plan on proposing when he or she is stressed or overwhelmed.
  8. Pick a memorable place, song, or occasion such as where you first met, or first kissed, etc.
  9. Set a romantic tone.
  10. Keep it fun.
  11. Keep it simple.
  12. Don't do anything really dumb like tying the ring to the end of a kite string or fishing line.
  13. Don't lose the ring if you've purchased one.
Tips:
  1. Be prepared to have your best-laid plans fall apart.
  2. Focus more on the moment than on the ring and other externals.
  3. Try not to give your plans away by showing how nervous you are.

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