International Romance Week

What is Romance in Marriage?

Words that we connect with "romance" are:

Why bother with romance when you're married? Gregory Godek in 1001 Ways to Be Romantic says it best, "It will improve the quality of your life."

Bob's sense of romance is often shown by his stopping the car and rushing over to a patch of flowering weeds to pick me a bouquet. These weed bouquets go back to our dating days over 30 years ago, and he warms my heart every time he does it.

Another statement of Godek's is that a balance is needed in romance... "Actions speak louder than words. It's the thought that counts." So often couples get caught up in having to buy things or think they can't be romantic when there isn't any money in their wallet. Nonsense!!

I enjoy putting little notes around for Bob to find. Just remembering to grab hold of his hand when we are shopping, and not leave him behind in my quest for a good deal, is an act of romance, and one that is very important to him!

If you are at a bit of a loss for romantic ideas, check out the many resources available on the web, and also check in to our Couples' Corner for some more ideas.

Romance is not about self sacrifice. It is living each day as if it were your last one together. It is making things nice for one another and leaving the bathroom clean. It is paying attention to one another and creating private times with one another. It's wanting to be together. It's fully experiencing the present moment with your loved one.

Tell us how you celebrated International Romance Week! We'd love to hear your ideas and success stories! Send us a note so we can post your thoughts too!.