It is important that you honor and respect their choice.
Some Alternatives:
- Giving money or a money tree may be appropriate and appreciated for an elderly couple on a fixed income.
- Another alternative is to have a card shower. Have friends and relatives send out cards with memories of the couple and how the love they had for one another impacted the lives of others.
- If you really want to give the couple something, send a present to the couple's home after the party.
