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Before You Buy Marriage Books

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com

Every couple will hit some bumps in the road on their marital journey now and then. There are countless books about how to have a successful marriage.

How do you know that the book you're picking up is going to offer good advice? Does it contain trusted information? Do you know what you want to get out of it?

Here are some questions to ask yourself and some guidelines to help you find the book that is right for your marriage relationship.

Don't Buy Just Any Book on Marriage

There are many different approaches to building and maintaining a healthy marriage. Look for books that focus on tools and techniques to help the two of you keep the lines of communication open.

  • Talk about it with one another first!

  • Listen to what your spouse has to say.

  • Express your own feelings and thoughts by using "I" statements.

Know Why You Want A Book about Marriage

It is important to know how you expect a book to help your relationship.

  • Are you dealing with a stage of marriage such as mid-life or newlyweds?

  • Are you having to cope with an unfaithful spouse?

  • Do you want a book to help enrich your marriage and make it stronger?

  • Do you want to know how to handle sexual dysfunction in a marriage?

What to Look For in a Marriage Book

Make sure the book meets the expectations you both have.

  • A book with a good index and bibliography will be easier to read and more informative.

    • Stay with established, well known authors with good reputations.

    • Seek books with accurate, up-to-date information.
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