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Marriage 101 -- A Beginner's Guide to Marriage

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Marriage 101: Issues Many Married Couples Have to Work Through Together
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Just starting your marriage journey together? Here's some of what you need to know about marriage issues to have a successful marriage.

  • Finances are the number one reason couples divorce. Regularly discuss money issues in your relationship.

  • Conflict over chores around the house is second only to conflict over money in a marriage. This is a topic you can't avoid talking about.

  • A sexy, exciting marriage doesn't just happen. You need to stay intimate with one another and show your love and passion for one another on a daily basis.

  • Although children are a tremendous joy, they do have an impact on a marriage. Remember to schedule time just for the two of you.

  • Realize that your in-laws will be a part of your marriage whether you like it or not. Learn how to set boundaries with your in-laws and how to enjoy them.

  • Don't let stress in your marriage tear you apart. Learn coping skills to help you through the tough times.

  • Interfaith, interracial, and intercultural marriages have their own set of unique challenges to face. If you are considering one of these marriage relationships, discuss your differences before you get married.

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