If you’re stumped as to what to get your wife for your anniversary, considering the theme of the year can be an excellent place to start; every wedding anniversary has both a traditional and modern gifting concept. It can be a nice jumping-off point to get the ideas flowing, but don’t feel locked into any theme at the end of the day. “Remember, gifts are a reflection of your relationship,” says etiquette expert Jodi RR Smith, adding that you shouldn’t feel obligated to adhere to the traditional or modern gift rules. “Your gift should revolve around your spouse, not ‘paper’ or ‘tin.’”
To that point, think about the types of things your wife loves and what she’s unlikely to purchase for herself. Yes, jewelry (hello, diamonds) is always a fool-proof option. The same goes for everyday staples that she’ll get plenty of use out of—think a gorgeously luxe pair of pajamas or a beautiful tote bag. And when in doubt, personalized anniversary presents such as a photo book and artwork depicting your wedding venue are sure to pull at her heartstrings and are always appreciated. We researched the best anniversary gifts for your wife, considering sentimental, thoughtful, and romantic gifts.
Brilliant Earth Wedding Band
For a major anniversary (think the one, five-, or ten-year), this stunning ring is worth the splurge. You wouldn’t believe that the diamonds featured all the way around this band are lab-grown; in our testing, we were thoroughly impressed with how durable they were. The ring looks gorgeous worn on its own, though is also thin enough to work into any bridal stack.
Maison Francis Kurkdjian Baccarat Rouge 540
Buying perfume for your wife can admittedly be a bit risky if you’re not entirely sure of her scent preferences, but that’s not a concern here. This totally unique fragrance touts a variety of different notes and defies falling into any one olfactory category, a large reason for its universal appeal and cult-classic status.
Josie Natori Agathe Belted Floral Silk Satin Long Robe
Yes, this luxe robe is definitely another splurge—but we think it's worth it. Crafted out of 100% silk, it features contrasting shawl lapels and a removable belt. She'll be grateful every day to slip on this gorgeous piece to go make her morning coffee.
Away Luggage Set of 2 Classic
Nice luggage hits that perfect gifting sweet spot—it’s both totally practical and feels like a special splurge, particularly when it’s a high-end set like this pair. We love how sleek and functional the carry-on and checked bag pieces are, as well as the fact that they can be personalized with her initials for an extra special touch.
YSL Small Grain de Poudre Envelope Wallet
Crafted with exquisite attention to detail, this little wallet offers ample card slots, a coin pocket, and a sleek envelope design, ensuring she stays organized while looking chic. The high-quality grain de poudre leather and iconic YSL logo make it a timeless accessory that she'll cherish for both its functionality and style. Its elegance and practicality make it a thoughtful and long-lasting anniversary gift that symbolizes your commitment and refined taste.
Vitruvi Stone Essential Oil Diffuser
In addition to filling the space with scent, this modern ceramic diffuser functions as a decorative objet for her desk or shelf. It diffuses essential oils for four to eight hours at a time (simply add drop of your favorite blend to the small tank of water and plug in). It's available in a range of color options to fit with any decor style.
Lunya Silk Tee Pant Set
Silk may be the 12-year anniversary gift, but it's welcome for any occasion. Slipping into this silk sleep set truly does make bedtime feel like a dream. The oversized top and side slit pants are comfortable yet sophisticated; the fabric is thermoregulating for heat control, buttery soft, and, best of all, machine washable.
MJM Rainbow Moonstone Hug Hoops
Here’s a fun take on classic hoops. The chic huggies showcase a stunning rainbow moonstone in a recycled gold bezel setting—it's a look that works just as well for casual everyday wear as it does for special occasions
Mark & Graham Turkish Hydrocotton Bath Robe
An extra plush, supremely luxe bathrobe is a guaranteed pleaser, and this one checks all of the boxes. Made from 100 percent ultra-long staple Turkish Aegean cotton, it has a comfortable and quick-drying fit that's perfect for post-shower rituals—think getting ready for work or relaxing at the end of a long day. The added personalization makes it feel even more special.
Gucci Ophidia Cosmetic Case
Perhaps the most high-end makeup bag we’ve ever seen, this is iconic Gucci in every sense of the word, covered in the double G monogram and featuring the signature red and green stripe. And it’s not only pretty, it’s practical, too, with double zippers, a roomy interior, and plenty of pockets and compartments for organization.
Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug 2
No matter whether she loves tea, coffee, or prefers to switch between both, this is the perfect way to ensure her go-to beverage stays warm, regardless of how busy her day gets. The rechargeable coaster keeps the mug (and drink inside) toasty for anywhere from 80 minutes up to a full day. We also like that it can be controlled with or without the accompanying app.
Mejuri Pavé Diamond Slim Signet
Signet rings are classic, but this one is made to feel all the more unique with the addition of 0.165 carats of ethically sourced, round diamonds in the center. It’s the ideal piece for any woman who’s all about understated sparkle.
Cuyana Personalized Leather Wellness Case
Ideal for travel, this pebbled leather case will keep her skincare routine secure and organized. Still, it’s so pretty that it can also be used when she’s not on the go, a nice addition to any vanity. You can also add monogramming, always a nice idea for a gift.
Dyson Special Edition Airwrap Multi-Styler Complete Long
If she’s all about a good blowout, she’ll go nuts over this hot tool, trust us. It’s pricey, but worth every penny, with a variety of attachments and high-tech design that make it incredibly easy for anyone to create a multitude of different salon-inspired looks.
Dagne Dover Landon Carryall Bag
There’s no shortage of different ways to utilize this versatile tote. It’s the perfect size for quick weekend getaways, as well as daily trips to the gym, an extra piece of carry-on luggage, a bag for commuting, you name it. Bonus points for the durable neoprene material, and the six chic and neutral colorways.
Ring Concierge Toi et Moi Personalized Gemstone Ring
“Toi ei moi” translates to “you and me”—could that be any more apropos for an anniversary gift? In this case, the ‘you and me’ are two semi-precious gemstones, one in an emerald and one in a pear cut, available in six different color combinations.
Soko Horn Pia Threader Earrings
Sculptural and modern, these earrings are handmade in Kenya. They feature a stunning contrast of horn and brass and are available in either a black or tan finish.
Bearaby Cotton Weighted Blanket
A weighted blanket makes the perfect addition to any lounging or relaxation routine, offering the sensation of a big hug that’s calming and comforting. This particular one boasts an attractive knit design that looks great draped over any sofa or bed, and is made of organic cotton so it never gets too hot.
Therabody TheraFace Pro
If she’s a gadgets and gizmos kind of girl, this is the way to go. The techy tool not only delivers (very relaxing, very enjoyable) percussive facial massage, but can also be used as a microcurrent device, delivers rejuvenating light therapy, and even works as a face cleansing brush, too.
Maya Brenner Custom Gold Necklace
Celebs such as Meghan Markle and Mila Kunis are fans of this necklace, so your wife will most definitely be in good company. The three-part design can be customized with any letters and/or charms of your choosing, a nice way to represent you, your kids, your pets, and more.
Shinery Shine Bride Like a Diamond Gift Set
Pair this with a piece of jewelry or gift it on its own; she’ll love it and get plenty of use out of it either way. The set comes with everything she needs to keep all of her bling, new and old, clean and bright, including a wash, towelettes, and buffing pom.
Cloud Massage Foot Massager
While she’d of course love a DIY foot massage from you, this device will make both of your lives easier and more enjoyable. The deep kneading Shiatsu technique can be adjusted with five different massage modes and three intensity levels, giving her the exact foot (and calf) massage she wants at any given time.
BaubleBar Pavé Nameplate Necklace
The perfect everyday staple, customize this with your wife’s (or your) name in cursive or block font. The pavé cubic zirconia stones add the perfect level of sparkle, without feeling so delicate or expensive that she’ll be afraid to wear this every day.
Cuzen Matcha Matcha Maker Starter Kit
Whipping up a delicious, homemade matcha has never been easier. This machine does everything from store to grind to whisk your tea leaves, for a delectable cup of matcha in minutes. Fun fact: Celebs Cindy Crawford and Carey Mulligan also love it.
Diamond Nexus Round Cut Martini Set Studs
These earrings look like real diamond studs, but, spoiler alert, they’re not. Rather, they’re made from the brand’s patented diamond simulant that looks exactly like a flawless diamond. The upshot? You can score a larger carat weight, without breaking the bank.
Minted Letterpress Venue Portrait
This gift turns your wedding venue into a beautiful work of art, something your wife (and you) can cherish for years to come. Make it extra special by adding the venue's location or any other personal text. It’s heartfelt, meaningful, and a present that can work for any anniversary.
Skims Soft Lounge Sleep Set
This classic yet stylish set is made from an ultra-soft, ribbed modal fabric that’s ideal for both sleeping and lounging. And with over 14 different colors and inclusive sizes ranging from XXS to 4X, there’s an option for everyone.
Augustinus Bader The Face Cream Mask
Make no mistake about it, this is nothing like the face masks she may already have. It’s powered by the brand’s proprietary TFC8 technology, which essentially helps your skin better renew itself. Long story short, this fancy-pants mask hydrates, boosts radiance, and improves texture and tone, and can be used either for just a few minutes or in lieu of an overnight cream
kaieldesigns Personalized Cuff Bracelet
You don’t necessarily have to spend tons of money for a meaningful and sentimental piece of jewelry. These adjustable cuffs (which come in a variety of finishes) can be stamped with any kind of special date, phrase, letters, you name it. And at this price point, you can easily afford to pick up a few to create a beautiful stack.
Wempe Pearl Necklace
Diamonds may be a girl’s best friend, but pearls are close behind. This necklace is made of 18K yellow gold and features 62 cultured freshwater pearls in a classic round shape. It’s timeless, traditional, and totally perfect.
Burberry Helena Sunglasses
With an oversized shape and a classic tortoise-shell finish, these sunnies give off serious Hollywood A-lister vibes. And designer sunglasses totally fall into the category of one of those things that she might not necessarily buy herself, but will definitely appreciate and get plenty of use out of.
Deux Mains Trifold Wallet
The hand-woven weave on the front of this wallet adds visual interest, while magnetic snap closures and plenty of pockets for credit cards, cash, and coins ensure it’s practical, too. Made of full-grain leather, it’s available in three colors.
Diptyque Baies Candle 600g
Yes, candles always make a great gift (we will die on that hill), but a standard, run-of-the-mill candle doesn’t quite make the cut when it comes to feeling special enough to be an anniversary gift. But this isn’t a run-of-the-mill candle. Not only is the rose and blackcurrant scent exquisite, but the oversized format boasts a 90-hour burn-time and a stunning black porcelain vessel that doubles as a piece of decor.
Paper Culture Photo Wedding Book
Here’s a wallet-friendly option that’s perfect for a first anniversary. Compile all of your favorite wedding photos and have them printed in this pretty, hardcover book; each page can be customized with layouts and text. Plus, it’s all printed on 100% post-consumer recycled paper and the brand plants a tree for each purchase made.
TRX Home2 System
If she’s an avid worker-outer, she’ll love that this system makes it easy to do any number of at-home workouts, even if she’s short on time (or space). It comes with everything you need—anchors and straps—to set up the streamlined, multi-tasking workout equipment anywhere.
Heat Healer Infrared Sauna Blanket
This at-home sauna blanket makes it easy for her to tap into the infrared sauna wellness trend—in the comfort of your own home. Think of it as a souped-up sleeping bag that delivers infrared heat to help calm the mind, promote muscle recovery, help you sweat out toxins, and more.
Kokak Chocolates Assorted Truffle Collection
Make no mistake about it, this is a far cry from any generic box of chocolates. The handcrafted truffles come in a variety of special flavors, think things like mango lemongrass and macadamia praline, not to mention are all decorated with unexpected, whimiscal designs.
Wolf Gourmet Multi-Function Cooker
A standard slow cooker might not feel like the greatest anniversary gift, but this isn’t a standard slow cooker. The multi-tasking appliance (which also happens to look very high-end) can slow cook, yes, but it also acts as a sous vide machine, a rice cooker, and has a mega-convenient saute setting.
Valdé Armor + Refillable Lip Set
We can confidently guarantee that she doesn’t own a lipstick quite like this, which is part of what makes it so gift-worthy. The lipstick case looks like a piece of art in and of itself and comes with a convenient magnifying mirror that makes precise application a breeze. Then there’s the refillable and reusable tube, which can be filled with the brand’s creamy lipstick.
Underclub Lingerie Gift Subscription
There’s certainly nothing wrong with buying your wife lingerie as an anniversary gift, but giving her a subscription to this site is, shall we say, a little safer. Choose from a three-, six, or 12-month option; each month she’ll get to choose the bralette and pantie set that she wants to receive.
Simitri Fringe Clutch
The combo of hot pink silk and a metallic chain make this clutch, from a BIPOC-owned brand, a true showstopper. A black velvet-lined interior adds an elegant touch.
We Dream in Colour Oberoi Earrings
Are these earrings a piece of jewelry or a piece of art? Answer: A little bit of both. A trio of geometric brass shapes are washed in green pigment, creating the perfect piece for any woman who loves wearing accessories that no one else will have.
Jenni Kayne Cotton Cocoon Cardigan
Comfy and cozy, this cardigan is the perfect topper to throw on pretty much any time of year. Also nice: It’s a sustainable option, made entirely of recycled fibers.
ToteSavvy Deluxe Bag Organizer
For the boss lady in your life, this ToteSavvy Deluxe Bag Organizer offers not just organization but also versatility, allowing her to transition seamlessly from work to personal outings. Its chic design and durable construction make it a stylish and practical accessory that complements her busy lifestyle, making it the perfect anniversary gift that combines fashion and functionality. There are three color options to choose from with this versatile nylon accessory: red, beige, and the ever-popular black.
What to Look For When Buying an Anniversary Gift for Your Wife
- Sentimentality: When it comes to choosing an anniversary gift for your wife, honoring the occasion with something sentimental is probably a good idea. Something personal, like the Minted Letterpress Venue Portrait, a customized portrait of your wedding venue, or a necklace with her name, like the BaubleBar 18K Gold Pavé Nameplate Necklace, will become a meaningful keepsake.
- Thoughtfulness: As the adage goes, it’s the thought that counts, and nothing could be more true when it comes to an anniversary gift for your wife. You’ll want to give her something that lets her know how special she is to you and that you’ve been paying attention to her interests and wishes. Taking the time to get something you know she’ll enjoy, like a gift card for an at-home massage, or a cozy weighted blanket, are great ways to show how much you care.
- Romantic: Let those feelings of romance come through in your anniversary gift for your wife. For instance, customize your gift with a personal message — use bronze detailing for a 19th-anniversary gift. Whatever gift you choose, add a handwritten note to let your spouse know how much you love and appreciate them.
Why Trust Brides
Brides contributor Melanie Rud has nearly 15 years of journalism experience covering the beauty and lifestyle space for some of the biggest magazines and websites out there. She’s written countless gift guides across a wide array of topics and categories. (She also prides herself on being an excellent gift-giver.)
- Jodi RR Smith, president and owner of Mannersmith, is an etiquette consultant who specializes in social and professional etiquette.