Question
I live in Orlando, Florida. When I was reading about marriage, I found your web site and I decided to send you this message to get help.This is the problem. When I was in grade 9, I fell in love with one girl in Africa. I was 14 years old. Now I am 29 years old, but at that time I was shy and I never talked to her.
After two years, when I was in 11th grade, I had a chance to talk to her but there was no solution. She lied to me and said she is going to get married with someone. That was wrong. She never got married. After a few months she and her famly moved to a different city.
That city is very far. I can't go and talk to her but I always think about her. After I finished school, I start search for her address. I didn't find her for seven years. After that, I moved to the U.S.A.
Even moving very far cannot stop me from loving her. I kept searching and learned that after 5 years she came to U.S.A. The people who knew I was still looking for her called me and told me the good news. Finally, God helped me. I found her after 12 years. God helped me. Thank you God.
I received the information Thursday at 11:30 pm when I came home. At 1 am, I couldn't sleep after I talked to her after 12 years. Then I decided to go to California and see her. I bought a ticket for Saturday.
She didn't even know I was coming to see her. I called her on the phone and we spent two days together. After that she came to Florida for a few days. We had a very good time. We agreed to live together and know each other more.
After we lived together for two months, she kept asking to get married now. I said it is better if we wait a little bit longer. She wasn't happy, but she agreed. On the fourth month, I got sick. On the seventh month she said you don't want to marry me. I am going back to my family.
I told her give me two weeks, but she don't want to stay. She left two weeks ago. After than I am not happy. I am about to get sick again. I can't sleep, eat, get peace.
She said if you want us to live together, come to California. After than you can take me back. Otherwise she is not agreeing to come here and get married quick. For this kind of problem what is your advice? Do I have to do it now?
