Answer
It appears that this young woman may just want to find a husband - any husband. You don't mention if she has ever said she loves you. Weren't you surprised at how quickly she agreed to move in with you?You don't have to get married if you don't want to, are unsure of your love for this girl, or just don't believe you are ready for marriage.
We do hope you take care of yourself. It is difficult to make good decisions when you are physically ill.
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