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Enjoy Valentine's Day With Your Spouse by Sharing Your Expectations

Valentine's is More Than Giving Gifts


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For many people, Valentine's Day is the ultimate day for romance. For others, it is just another day and not a big deal.

Share With One Another How Important Valentine's Day Is or Isn't

If you aren't sure what Valentine's Day means to your spouse, you need to talk about it. Otherwise, your unspoken expectations will lead to huge disappointments.

As you talk about Valentine's Day, share your attitudes, memories, expectations, and feelings about Valentine's Day and what the holiday represents to both of you.

You may be surprised at what you learn. Many people have negative memories of Valentine's Day experiences.

Ways to Make Valentine's Day Special

Regardless of your past or current thoughts about Valentine's Day, there are ways to make Valentine's Day special. Remember that Valentine's Day isn't just about giving and receiving gifts or sending flowers. Valentine's Day should be a time to reflect on and share your love for one one another.
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