Left to Pick Up the Pieces
I did not know what to do. I was shaking. I checked all his pictures with her. He has created a different life in her world. In her world my husband who never takes his wedding ring off is her boyfri…
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Serial Infidelity
Destroyed like I was going to die. Like I lost my bestfriend. My marriage has been a lie. I hate him most days. I can't cope with it usually. We are still married but he thinks I should be friends wi…
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Trust What Your Gut Tells You
So depressed I contemplated suicide, attempted same; felt worthless, a fool, the pain of betrayal overwhelmed. I wish i could say it was over; can't. Live day to day, hopeless. If I leave, I will be …
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STD Test Reveals Unfaithfulness
I couldn’t work and when I got home I confronted him. He admitted cheating in 2008 but never again. Later on that week I see a text sent to someone with the words “we need to talk”.…
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Cheating, Alcohol, and Spying
I felt betrayed. Obviously, the message she wrote meant that she had deep emotional attachment to her colleague. I started drinking and became abusive towards my wife. It happened for 6 months until …
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Cyber Sex and Later Forgiveness
I met my husband who was in the Royal Navy 24 years ago when his ship docked in Florida were I grew up, I knew the night I met him, that he was the one for me, we quickly fell in very deep love and m…
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No Remorse
My world as I knew it fell apart. I felt he was a coward, telling me over the phone while over there. He thought that was the best time and considered that as our separated time, so three months to g…
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Affair After Birth of Baby
I am still coping. After the initial talk where he said it was because he wasn't getting enough attention. We talked every couple of days which was hard since we had house guests for the holidays. Mo…
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Numerous Relationships
I am trying to feel happy just by looking at my children (we have 3 kids). I don't think I will ever recover. I was molested from 6 to 16 years old which I had admitted to him, and it was so difficul…
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Relationship With Neighbor
I've been seeing a therapist for 3 years. I picked a woman Dr. to help me understand more about the female psyche. Even though I am probably going to seek a divorce, I'm still feeling really hurt. My…
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Trust Issues
He lied to me when I asked who she was. It was only when I confronted him about my health problems which I think was due to the stress of that relationship when he finally admitted who she was. He li…
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Cheater Must Want to Save Relationship
We are still coping. We are working things out and getting stronger and closer than ever. He didn't tell me for so long because I actually suspected it and whenever even just generic topics about che…
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Still in Shock
I think I am still in shock. I am not sure if I should believe he still wants to work things out. I can't stop thinking about it. It consumes my every thought. -- Editor's Note: We hope D makes a dec…
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Broken Trust
Our marriage did not survive this latest and last affair. My wife now lives with her lover "Frank" and it's been about two months since she has moved out to be with him. It has been really hard knowi…
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Chose Wrong Spouse
My husband got violent with me for the first time after awhile and said he was moving to the housing. The supervisor had him moved in to the housing complex and I asked her what are you doing? So she…
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Worst Luck With Friends
I had to get past the feelings of being stabbed in the back. I'm learning to trust. In this I lost the ability to trust, because the two people he stabbed me in the back with were my friends. The fin…
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Didn't Bother to Question Her
I have filed for divorce but we are still months away from finalizing it. I talked to this guy's wife before I was able to pinpoint how long this affair had been going on (at least a year). The worst…
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Cheater Wants to Make Things Better
I'm just hoping I can change things and show her that I will change. I'm going to do whatever needs to be done to make things normal. I will give her space to think and I will listen to whatever she …
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Serial Cheater
Until now the pain is still here because my husband is still with the girl. He is not telling me the truth even though there are many people who testified that they were together. I always pray. I al…
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Cheating for 39 Years
I cope by shedding a lot of tears, praying and just refusing to let the other woman having what I considered to be mine. Now I wish to hell I had given him to the first woman and ran the other way as…
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Support From In-Laws Important
I was horrified and hurt to say the least. I emailed them both and told them to STOP. I called his parents and told them. I did nothing wrong and would not hide this for him. And I planned to leave N…
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Retrouvaille Helped Save Marriage
I was devastated and I was determined to keep this from my teenage children as long as I could while working to restore the relationship. I told my pastor of my suspicions and he told me I was wrong …
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Keep Your Self-Esteem
My marriage did not survive the infidelity because in his mind, he was already gone and nothing could be done in his eyes. I begged him to go to marriage counseling and he did but only to turn around…
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