How Long Have You Been Married?
Getting married in 6 months
Are You Happily Married?
Engaged
What Made You Decide to Get Married?
I met my partner nearly two years ago. I knew almost immediately that he was everything I am looking for in a partner. I trust him and he is my best friend. He treats me amazingly well. If I do not care for something, I know that I can tell him and we will resolve our conflict.
My parents are concerned that I don't love him. I tell them that I do love him. They respond that I sound like a robot.
I went through a period of cold feet for a couple of months. I knew that he was my best friend and that I wanted to be with him. But, I wasn't 100% certain until a couple of weeks ago about forever.
What Were You Not Prepared For in Marriage?
As far as being engaged. I was not prepared for my parents. I try hard to respect them. But, they don't want me to get married to this man. But, it is my life and I am confident that our future will be great. I was not prepared to be on the roller coaster of so much and try to enjoy everything that life brings at me.
What is worse, is that they say they have seen "red flags" about the upcoming marriage. I respond that they will see whatever they choose to see. I try to share with them how supportive, respectful and caring he is. However, they believe strongly that we will grow apart from each other and divorce later on.
I wish I didn't feel like I had to choose between the man I want to be with and my parents.
Advice
- Talk to your parents ahead of time on the reasons you wish to marry.
- It is normal to want children and to see your partner as the person you want to have children with.
- If you know you love him, then that's all you have to prove to yourself.
