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Readers Respond: Readers Thoughts About Being in a Prison Marriage

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From the article: Prison Marriage
In light of the extremely high divorce rate of prison marriages, where are the successful prison marriage stories? Readers share their thoughts about being in a prison marriage.

Violated by Global Tel Line

It is so important, in our relationships to stay in touch as much as possible and the phone charges are crazy expensive. I new FCC law has put a cap on the amount that can be charged. Here is link to FCC law. http://www.fcc.gov/guides/inmate-telephone-service. Texas is not complying yet, but if you have an out of state number it forces them to comply. Or get a phone number that is local. Both can be done, if you have a free Google account, for free, and forwarded to your cell. I cried when I got the information and want to share it. Read more about our journey on www.lockedapart.blogspot.com.

It Can Work

I met my husband through a mutual friend he has life in prisoninitially I said no way sure her letters are great and his picture is sexy but what can we do with each other so I told him visiting him was not on my top ten list of things to do shortly later we were married. it has been a struggle it has been a challenge the ups the downs allies but yet we still stuck in there I stuck in there because I seen something in him that was worth sticking around for. of course he is not perfect but he is damn near close to it there are couples and lay in the bed together every single night and can't stand each other or don't know each other he goes for parole board in a little while our journey has been beautiful and I can't wait to have him in my arms
—Guest punchos wife

My Long Distances Soul

We met 2yrs ago, and fell in love right away. Talked everyday, It was almost like he ws in my face like i was waiting for him to come home. i dreammed of him all the time loving him like no other he is doing hard time in another state. saying to my self how can you love a man in another state and on top of that in prison.. but i came to realize that God places people in your life for a reason, and everyone needs love and needs someone to care for them. and the one thing that i love is that he is so understanding of the type of woman that i am. he dont ask for nothing but my time and my love and my care. and that to me is a stand out point and it's been a long road but its almost over and i cant wait to enbrace him with all the love and care and affection that i have been saving for him!!!!I LOVE MY MAN FOR A REASON, THANK GOD FOR HIM. US WOMAN PLEASE BE STRONG CAUSE ONE DAY IT WILL ALL BE OVER. LOVE & BLESSINGS

Til Death Us Do Part

been married 20 yrs then found out he d messed with my granddaughter.i took her to file against him and then him to parol office where he was arrested.got 25 yrs hes 64 I forgave him period.wont divorce him either not catering to a convict.granddaughter needed counciling therapy . some people are just bad and need to be locked up been 5 years still evil as ever.now he calls it crossing lines state calls it sexual assault of a minor 25 to life. I still wish id shot him kitchen
—Guest amanda

Married By Proxy

I married my husband my proxy 3 years ago this week. He got out for while but messed up and will likely do some more time. My heart is broke, but I love him and will do whatever I can do to support him. Read about our journey. http://lockedapart.blogspot.com/

My Ride To The Mountain

The Journey & The Anxiety By: Saar-rah Robinson “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” Maya Angelou ANXIETY: A feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome. The night before the journey, sometimes I can’t sleep at all. I experience anxiety before we take our trip. Anxiety comes from not knowing what to expect once you arrive on the prison grounds… you never know if your car is going to be searched…dogs smelling you… lots of unknown factors create our anxiety. It is so important for me to sleep. I am driving and need to sleep, but I have anxiety as well. I have a duty to sleep because of the safety of my friends who are in the car with me. Most of the time I, the driver, am tired. I go get my friends and family providing door-to-door service to and from their home safely.

Is This a Big Risk?

I'm in no way married to an inmate, but I might be one day. I met this pretty girl who works at the same building that I do. She would walk past and she stared back at me when I noticed her. Our eyes met and it was like magic. We always made eye contact everyday, but she never said a word to me, nor did she stop when she walked past. You see, she was being escorted - her crew cleaned our building and she couldn't make contact with anyone. Fast forward and I visit her in prison on my days off. We write each other like every day that the we can. There is a connection! She's getting out in just about 2 months and then she says she's going to call me. She doesn't live too terribly far away. Perhaps we can make something of it. She was busted for possession of a schedule I substance 1st offense. I've never served a day in my life. Do you think this idea is risky? My heart wants reassurance but will likely meet her either way. Editor's Note: Yes -- it is a big risk, but some risks are worth it. Just take things slow, okay? SS


Cory and I met in junior high. We have always had this connection although we were from different sides of the tracks. I went away to the military and he became a hustler. We would see each over the years and there was always this intense connection. Fast forward about 20 years and he contacts me through his niece. He says that he has loved me for as long as he could remember but his lifestyle prevented him from being the man that he knew I deserved. He says and I believe that he has changed. He has spent most of his life in the system but it was what he was taught as a kid. He doesn't want this life anymore. I love him so much. He wants to get married soon but I am conflicted. He is going to be moved to another state soon which is why I think he wants to get married sooner rather than later. I want to marry him but the idea of a prison wedding is just so wild to me. Please pray for us.
—Guest Shaun


Wait untill your man gets out of prison to marry him. Im married to soneone in prison and from experience i should have waited. Many women dont want to wait afraid he ll change his mind . Believe in your self, some of these men leave their wives after getting released from prison. Put yourself first its not easy sleeping alone on your wedding night. r
—Guest roses

Girlfriend of Incarcerated

I met my boyfriend before he went to prison. It upset me that he waited the last minute to tell me what was happening in his life as far as his sentence. He said he was afraid he'd lose me. Now we are almost two months into his 15 months sentence. Though we aren't married yet, I love him and realize incarcerated or not he's the one for me.
—Guest guest mimo

My Boyfriend is Doing Life

I met my boyfriend as a pen pal while he was in prison. He has a life sentence that we are currently trying to appeal. I am in love with this man ive never felt this way about anyone. We want to get married & my family thinks im out of my mind for that. Is anyone else dealing with a boyfriend or husband who has a life sentence? I could really use some support since everyone is against my decisions. Editor's Note: I hope you listen to what those who care about you have to say.
—Guest kay

He's Doing 10 Years, So I Guess I Am Too

I met him in 2005 & I couldn't stand him. (We now laugh at the fact that I kicked him out of my apartment.) I cut off all communication until I received a FB message from him May 2012. He told me that he was in his 3rd year of a 10 year sentence. He was completely honest with me about the crime he committed & everything that transpired after that. We began to communicate regularly & as a complete surprise to myself, I began to love this man. I wanted to be a beacon of light in his world. Of course there was no support from my family, they thought that I was crazy & naive. We wed October 2013 & I do not regret my decision. Is it hard? Yes, it is. All of our disagreements/arguments are magnified because of the situation. Have I had to adjust my deeply rooted ideas of how my marriage was supposed to be? Oh yes I have. Guess what though? In my heart, I know that he's worth it. As his wife, I will keep him focused on every positive thing that is to come when it is his turn to come home.
—Guest Mrs. Forever 13

Got Married To a Lifer In the End

One day I was out shopping and my phone rang. It was this guy claiming he knew everything about me , where I worked , who I spoke to. He knew all about me. I told him to do one as I was with someone else. He said he had people keeping an eye on me for along time as I would be his future wife one . I laughed at him especially when he said he was in prison and he was a lifer, I didn't believe him. I avoided his phone calls but to my astonishment. He had my other number, I freaked out didn't answer my other number, he sent his brother down every night to the club I worked at. I never knew that the guy who use to be a regular customer who I use to say hello to was his brother , to convince me that he was in prison , his brother showed me his prison photo. I was really taken back . So I decided to speak with him and tell him am flattered but am not interested. He claimed he was in love with me . I told him I was in love with someone else , who had gone to prison recently . tbcl

Incarcerated Husband of 5 Years

My husband & I have been married for 5 years now and today I am finally at peace with my decision to married him. We have faced numerous issues stemming from insecurities, misunderstandings, worries & fears. I have had the fleeting thought of giving up this marriage, but I didn't. I relied on the belief that even though he is not perfect; God sent him to me - because I needed someone to make be stronger in all areas. I can be myself around him and we play & flirt with each other alot. I am no longer worried about others finding out that my husband is incarcerated. I, we define our own happiness. The support group that I attend helps to reduce & even eliminate the sense of isolation that I previously felt. I talk to him everyday, sometimes several times per day; even for a few minutes. I allow myself to cry with him, when I am sad. I freely share my feelings with him & express my appreciation for him frequently. His incarceration has not lessen my undying love 4 him. Thnx u God!
—Guest Debbie

Met While Incarcerated

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—Guest metwhileincarcerated

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