Are you wondering how you can strengthen your marriage?
A starting point is to talk with each other about these lists of things some husbands and wives want from marriage.
Here are a few more things you can do to enhance your marriage.
- Cuddle, snuggle, hold hands, hug, and kiss your spouse.
- Walk together -- both physically and emotionally.
- Eat at least one meal a day together.
- Talk with one another during dinner.
- Commit to having date nights.
- One of the keys to great sex is communication. If you are having sexual problems, discuss them.
- Share your feelings with your spouse.
- Leave love notes and special messages somewhere to be found by your spouse.
- Continue to build intimacy in your marriage.
- Put your spouse first on your priority list.
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Comments about individuals believing they are marrying their soul mates
are often mentioned in press releases and stories about long lasting marriages. Soul mate movie themes
are popular, too.
We heard engaged couples on Engaged Encounter Weekends talking about how they found their soul mates. Advertisements for match making services try to sell the idea that you can find your soul mate by taking their tests.
If you believe in the idea of only one soul mate for each person, you may assume that a partnership of two soul mates should be able to handle challenging times easily. That may not always be the case.
Douglas LaBier, Ph.D., describes a soul mate as an "idealized lover", an "unattainable ideal", and a "flawed pursuit". But he also believes that by having a mature love relationship with openness, letting go of control, and making time for each other, you can have a soul mate experience with your spouse.
"I think there's a way to grow and develop the soul mate experience with your partner. It's attainable in reality, but only when it's part of mature adult love. That is, it emerges from a sustainable adult relationship -- a blend of erotic desire, friendship, and respect and support of each other's growth and development as independent, different human beings."
Source: Douglas LaBier, Ph.D. "Your Soul Mate Fantasy: How to Make It A Reality." PsychologyToday.com. 4/19/2010.
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During the celebration of major religious celebrations such as Passover and Easter, interfaith couples may find themselves wondering how to be supportive of differing faith traditions.
Here are some tips for interfaith marriages dealing with the issue of different spring holiday celebrations.
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Interfaith Marriage Dos and Don'ts
, the popular television series on AMC, began its seventh and fnal season on Sunday, April 13, 2014. I will admit to enjoying the series. Did you know there are at least four things
you can learn about marriage by watching Mad Men
I haven't noticed any particularly really happily married couples on the show. There are some deeply dysfunctional and toxic relationships portrayed, yet the show can remind youl to not allow your marriage to fall in a rut or to give your career a higher priority.
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