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Can Masturbation Harm My Marriage?

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com

Question: Can Masturbation Harm My Marriage?
Answer: The fact that your spouse masturbates can have a negative impact on your marriage if it is taking the place of having sex with you. Masturbation can also hurt your marriage if your self esteem is damaged by the activity.

Many therapists believe that couples should not make a big deal about masturbation as it is so common place.

If the two of you can communicate your needs and desires with one another and accept that masturbation is natural and okay, masturbation should not be a problem in your marriage.

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