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Now That You are Alone - - Topics the Two of You Should Discuss
Take Advantage of the Time You Have Alone Together

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com

Take advantage of the time the two of you have alone together to talk about the topics that could create problems in your marriage, topics that could be a challenge to deal with, and the topics that could bring you both happiness.

  • Your hopes and dreams for the future.

  • Expectations. Not only general expectations, but at the beginning of each day, share your specific expectations of the day.

  • The sense of grief you are both feeling in dealing with the kids leaving home.

  • Financial concerns.

  • Health issues including menopause and andropause.

  • Downsizing.

  • Changing roles.

  • Where you want to live for the rest of your life.

  • Boomerang kids.

  • Grandchildren.

  • Aging parents.

  • Getting in one another's way and on one another's nerves.

  • The importance of being versus doing.

  • Travel.

  • Having fun together.

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Empty Nest Marriages -- The Sad News and the Good News

When the Kids are Gone -- Things You'll Notice Right Away That are Different

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