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Take Advantage of the Time You Have Alone Together

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Take advantage of the time the two of you have alone together to talk about the topics that could create problems in your marriage, topics that could be a challenge to deal with, and the topics that could bring you both happiness.

  • Your hopes and dreams for the future.

  • Expectations. Not only general expectations, but at the beginning of each day, share your specific expectations of the day.

  • The sense of grief you are both feeling in dealing with the kids leaving home.

  • Financial concerns.

  • Health issues including menopause and andropause.

  • Downsizing.

  • Changing roles.

  • Where you want to live for the rest of your life.

  • Boomerang kids.

  • Grandchildren.

  • Aging parents.

  • Getting in one another's way and on one another's nerves.

  • The importance of being versus doing.

  • Travel.

  • Having fun together.

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