Candle Symbolism

Ever ate dinner at McDonalds by candlelight?

Most of us enjoy the splendor and glory of candles. They are visible reminders of our possible triumph over darkness. Have you ever noticed how one candle can go nearly unnoticed yet when you have a lot of candles lit, their presence is domineering and one can't ignore their impact.

The symbolism of candles is reflected in numerous ways in our religious and cultural traditions. The Kwanzaa celebration utilizes special colored candles.

Many couples have a Unity Candle at their wedding. Two outside candles are lit by the couple's mothers to represent their lives to this moment. These distinct flames, each burning alone, represent the faith, wisdom and love received from their parents. Together, the couple lights a center candle, symbolizing the union of their lives. Their thoughts shall be for each other, and they will share both joys and sorrows. The flames of the two smaller candles remain lit to show how although they are now one, they are still each unique individuals.

A candle represents love which can light our spouse's world.

A candle wipes out darkness and shows us how love can brighten our beloved's life.

When we are near a candle, we feel warmth, just as we feel warmth from the love of our spouse.

A candle can give a sense of direction, and can draw people together, reminding us of how our love is a binding force also.

When a candle burns, the melting wax on the candle in a way disfigures the candle, representing the risk and element of pain that exists in a love relationship.

A candle, in order to fulfill itself, must burn itself out. If a candle is never lit, it never fulfills it's purpose.

Our marital love is the same. We must totally give of ourselves for the other. Marriage is not a 50/50 proposition. It is a committment of 100/100 percent for each other.

Lighting a candle during a meal together, even at McDonald's, is a marvelous way to remind one another of the love you have for one another.

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