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Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage

From Sheri & Bob Stritof,
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Red Flags in a Marriage

If you think your marriage is in trouble, it probably is.

Every marriage relationship is unique, but there are common warning signs and red flags that indicate problems in the marriage.

Here are some of the more common warning signs of a troubled marriage.

  • The two of you bicker a great deal.

  • You are withdrawing from one another.

  • You don't fight fair.

  • You no longer have fun together.

  • You have nothing nice to say to one another.

  • You don't talk with one another about your problems.

  • You don't respect one another.

  • You can't agree on goals and values.

  • You don't trust one another and feel suspicious.

  • The level of sexual intimacy in your marriage is low.

  • One of you, or both, has been unfaithful.

  • Teasing has become hurtful.

  • Your spouse tries to isolate you from your family and friends.

  • You are happier when your spouse is away from home for an afternoon, a meeting, or for a business trip.

  • You realize that there is emotional and/or physical abuse in your marriage.

Don't Wait to Seek Professional Help

To receive the most from marriage counseling, don't wait until your marriage is beyond repair to get professional help.

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