1. Home
  2. People & Relationships
  3. Marriage

Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage
Red Flags in a Marriage

By , About.com Guide

Photo: S. Meltzer / Getty Images, PhotoLinkPhoto: S. Meltzer / Getty Images, PhotoLink
If you think your marriage is in trouble, it probably is.

Every marriage relationship is unique, but there are common warning signs and red flags that indicate problems in the marriage.

Here are some of the more common warning signs of a troubled marriage.

  • The two of you bicker a great deal.
  • You are withdrawing from one another or use the eye roll a great deal.
  • You don't fight fair.
  • There is a lot of nitpicking going on between the two of you.
  • You no longer have fun together.
  • You have nothing nice to say to one another.
  • You don't talk with one another about your problems.
  • You don't respect one another or you nag one another.
  • You can't agree on goals and values.
  • You don't trust one another and feel suspicious.
  • The level of sexual intimacy in your marriage is low.
  • One of you, or both, has been unfaithful.
  • Teasing has become hurtful.
  • Your spouse tries to isolate you from your family and friends.
  • You are happier when your spouse is away from home for an afternoon, a meeting, or for a business trip.
  • You realize that there is emotional and/or physical abuse in your marriage.

Don't Wait to Seek Professional Help

To receive the most from marriage counseling, don't wait until your marriage is beyond repair to get professional help.
Explore Marriage
About.com Special Features

Holiday Central

What to eat, where to go, fun things to do and how to save money on the perfect gifts. More >

What Does Your Surname Mean?

Your last name may reveal a compelling story about your family history. More >

  1. Home
  2. People & Relationships
  3. Marriage
  4. Calling it Quits
  5. Breaking Up
  6. Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage -- Red Flags in a Marriage>

©2009 About.com, a part of The New York Times Company.

All rights reserved.