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John Byrne and Tilda Swinton Relationship Profile

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com

The long term relationship of John Byrne and Tilda Swinton is unconventional.

Here is information about how they met, their relationship, attitudes toward marriage, and more.

Born:

Tilda Swinton aka Katherine Matilda Swinton: November 5, 1960 in London, England.

John Byrne: January 6, 1940 in Paisley, Renfrewshire, Scotland.

How John and Tilda Met:

Tilda and John met in December 1985 while they were both working on "The White Rose" production at the Traverse. They didn't become a couple until 1990 when she appeared in "Your Cheatin' Heart."

"It also saw Swinton hook up with Byrne, having met up again in the BBC canteen. Their quick and prolific minds and love of art and all things Scottish would see their union prosper and endure."
Source: Tiscali.co.uk

Children:

John and Tilda have twins, a son and daughter.
  • Xavier Swinton Byrne: Born in 1997.
  • Honor Swinton Byrne: Born in 1997.

John has two children from his first marriage to Alice Simpson.

  • John Byrne:
  • Cecilia (Celie) Byrne:

Residence:

Tilda and John live in Nairn, Scotland.

Tilda about living in the Scottish Highlands: "Yes, we live in the wilderness on the east coast. It's such a strange landscape, because it's got a sort of golden mien of its own, and there's a way of driving through it where you feel you're in a river or something."
Source: Graham Fuller, "Still Testing New Waters After All These Years", Interview, August 2001, v 31, i8, p46.

Occupations:

Tilda: Actress, producer.

John: Writer, actor, director, playwright, artist.

Other Marriages:

John was married when he met Tilda.
  • Alice Simpson: John married Alice, an artist, on April 1, 1964. They met at the Glasgow School of Art. John and Alice have two children.

    Peter Ross: "It is usually written in the Press that Swinton is his wife, but, in fact, he is still married to Alice Simpson, mother of his two grown children, John and Celie. I had no idea he was still married until he told me, but he won't say more than that. "If it's painful to other people," he says, "I'd rather not talk about it."
    Source: "Alice through the looking glass; At the age of 62, John Byrne", The Sunday Herald, 6/30/2002.

Quotes About Tilda and John's Relationship:

Tilda about her relationship with Sandro Kopp, a German-born actor and painter based in New Zealand: “What is true is that John and I live here with our children and Sandro is sometimes here with us, and we travel the world together. We are all a family.”
Source: TimesOnLine.co.uk

Tilda about John: "We are the best of pals and adore being parents and are devoted to that project. We ostensibly live in the same house but I travel the world with another delightful painter. The arrangement is just so sane."
Source: Elizabeth Snead, "Tilda's tilt-a-whirl style", LATimes.com, 12/12/2007.

John about his relationship with Tilda: "We love each other in an extraordinary way. We have always been the best of chums and will remain the best of chums for the rest of our lives."
Source: "Tilda Swinton's open marriage", TheFirstPost.co.uk, 2/12/2008.

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