No Justification, No Simple ReasonsAlthough there is no justification for cheating, when your unfaithful spouse gives you an excuse for cheating, it is simply a way to personally justify the behavior and to feel more at ease with the decision to cheat.
Why your spouse cheated on you is something you may never really know for sure. There are no simple answers or reasons. There are lots of excuses given by cheaters.
You are Not to BlameIf your spouse has been cheating on you, realize that you are not to blame, you are not a mind reader, and although the two of you were in the same marriage, your spouse made the decision to cheat.
People who are unfaithful are selfish. It is easier for them to cheat and to leave than it is to work on their marriage.
Don't Obsess Over ExcusesDon't obsess over the excuses you may hear from your unfaithful spouse. They are just words and personal justifications for your mate's hurtful behavior.
Regardless of the reasons given for being unfaithful, the bottom line is that your spouse has cheated.